People living with blood cancer often face many physical, emotional, and practical challenges. From diagnosis through treatment, to relapse or recovery, people need support. The type of support changes at various stages of the illness.
Providing support can make a difference in a person’s quality of life. It’s not always easy to know how to help. It is common to feel unsure, awkward, or afraid of saying the wrong thing. However, your willingness to be there will likely mean more than you realise.
How to support someone with blood cancer as a carer?
Be a good listener
One of the best ways to provide support is to be a good listener. Let them talk, share feelings, or sit in silence. If you’re unsure what to say, saying “I don’t know what to say, but I’m here for you” can help.
You can also ask how they’d like to communicate. Some people may prefer phone calls, short visits, or messages. Others may share updates through a friend, email, or private social media group.
Offer practical help
Everyday tasks can become overwhelming during treatment. Practical help can ease the burden. Offer specific support such as:
- Cooking meals or grocery shopping
- Helping with cleaning or laundry
- Picking up children
- Walking the dog
- Driving them to medical appointments
Friends and family sometimes make a roster for tasks, especially when children are involved.
Be flexible
Support needs can change over time. There may be times when the person wants company and others when they need rest and quiet. Don’t take these changes personally. Keep checking in and let them know you’re available if needed.
Help connect with support services
With their consent, you can connect your loved one with professional support. This might include:
- The Leukaemia Foundation or other cancer support organisations
- Financial and transport assistance programs
- Emotional and psychological support services
Blood cancer support groups
Many people find it helpful to talk with others going through similar experiences. Support groups offer a safe, understanding space to share, learn, and feel less alone.
Health professionals at treatment centres may have information about relevant support programs in the area.
The Leukaemia Foundation has online blood cancer support groups. They have support groups specifically for carers. These groups allow people to share and learn to provide care and support and look after themselves.
For more information go to Leukaemia Foundation Online Support Service – Carers learn module
