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MDS-survivor, Danny now dedicated to raising awareness

MDS-survivor, Danny now dedicated to raising awareness

This MDS World Awareness Day, Danny Palmer will celebrate achieving remission after undergoing a life-saving transplant earlier this year. He’s now committed to raising awareness of the many different blood cancers, encouraging others to donate blood and plasma, as well as fundraise in support of the community.

Danny Palmer on his 50th birthday
Danny on his 50th birthday, just a month after his MDS diagnosis. 

Danny was diagnosed with the blood cancer, myelodysplastic syndrome (MDS) in September 2019 after experiencing months of fatigue.

“I just assumed I was working too hard – I maintain parks and recreation areas for the local council and was walking a lot of kilometers every day,” said the 50-year-old who lives on the Gold Coast in Queensland.

“I have type-1 diabetes and bipolar disorder as well, so I was in regular contact with my doctor.

“I had an appointment in August 2019 and told him what was going on, he said, ‘you’re due for a blood test for your diabetes anyway but I think there’s a bit more to this’.”

“Low and behold, when the results came back it looked like I had leukaemia.”

Danny was taken to the local Gold Coast Hospital where he received a blood transfusion and underwent further tests.

“It was then confirmed that I actually had high-risk MDS. I was told it was a blood cancer, but I had no idea that there were any other types than leukaemia,” said Danny.

“It was a steep learning curve, and I was pretty scared.”

Danny during treatment
Danny during treatment.

Danny was put on a drug called azacitidine, a daily injection for a week every four weeks, and was given only eight months to live.

“My case was then submitted to the Royal Brisbane and Women’s Hospital (RBWH) board as an ideal candidate for a transplant,” said Danny.

“My haematologist at Gold Coast Hospital has a great relationship with my now haematologist in Brisbane, Dr Siok Tey.

“I was really lucky that I didn’t have to go the roundabout way to get to transplant but I was put forward to the right people from the outset.

“They assess a lot of things like your survival chances, any comorbidities, your age and the progression of your disease.

“In the new year I was told I had been accepted but that I would need a 10/10 perfect-match donor.”

Both Danny’s sister and brother were not a match, so the search was widened to find an unrelated donor.

“They first found a perfect-match donor from Germany; however, the COVID-19 pandemic had just hit, and we were told no more stem cells were making it into the country,” explained Danny.

Danny with his sister Kelly at Mt Coot-tha lookout during his recovery in Brisbane
Danny with his sister, Kelly at Mt Coot-tha lookout during his recovery in Brisbane.

“We were back to the drawing board for a while there. Thankfully, another 10/10 match was soon found down in Victoria and I was all set to go in April.”

On 2 April 2020, Danny underwent the transplant in Brisbane spending a total of 24 days in hospital.

“My wife, Sharon and my sister, Kelly cared for me and we were kindly offered a free unit at a Leukaemia Foundation Patient Accommodation Village,” said Danny.

“That was just brilliant and my Blood Cancer Support Coordinator, Jaye was so supportive throughout it all – I will never forget how kind and helpful she was to us.”

Within a couple days of being discharged, Danny had high temperatures and had to return to hospital for three nights with an infection in his central venous line.

“I also experienced severe graft versus host disease (GVHD) presenting as an all over body rash,” explained Danny.

“That went on for the full 100-day recovery, but we were able to eventually get rid of it by religiously applying steroid cream many times a day.”

After completing his 100-day recovery, Danny also suffered from some delayed GVHD in his mouth, throat, and gut.

“That’s been tough as it really holds you back from eating and I’ve lost about 10 kilograms,” he said

“I’m still trying to manage it by maintaining a healthier diet, especially with my diabetes, because my sugar levels are also raised by the steroids.”

Danny Palmer participating in Worlds Greatest Shave in March 2019
Danny participating in World’s Greatest Shave in March 2019.

On 6 October 2020, 187 days after his transplant, Danny finally achieved remission.

“That was really exciting news as my medical team had been quite worried when they found some immature cells of my own that were still cancerous,” said Danny.

“But they altered a few things with my steroid dosage and meds, and now my bloods are all looking great and my organs are functioning perfectly.

“Dr Tey even said they had spoken about my case in a special meeting as my recovery journey was really unique compared to others.”

With his recovery going well, Danny is now firmly focused on raising awareness of blood cancers.

“My diagnosis really opened my eyes to just how many blood cancers there are, and I want to do as much as possible to get more people involved in the cause,” he said.

“If anybody asks me about my cancer, I always do my best to explain exactly what it is and how much support is needed.

“I’m really passionate about blood and plasma donation now, it’s vital for many people’s survival and it’s not a painful process to donate. I’ve got all my friends and family doing it now.

“If you’re lucky enough to be healthy and well, why wouldn’t you help others who need it?”

Danny is also encouraging more people to fundraise to provide vital services to those going through a diagnosis, like the accommodation his family received.

“We just wouldn’t have made it through without that,” said Danny.

Danny with his Labrador, Bonnie who "keeps him busy".
Danny with his Labrador, Bonnie who “keeps him busy”.

“Coincidentally, I had participated in the Leukaemia Foundation’s World’s Greatest Shave six months before my diagnosis in 2019.

“A bloke from work had a young daughter who had passed away from leukaemia. I had a bit of a beard going so I decided to shave it all off and raise some money.

“Little did I know that I would be a recipient of those fundraising efforts in just a few months.”

Danny is now looking forward to celebrating his 51st birthday after a huge year.

“I’ll get the family together and celebrate some good news because it’s just been a lot of worry for a long time,” he said.

“My next step is getting back to work because I’m one of those people that don’t like sitting stagnant.

“Everything is looking like it’s going forward and I’m a very happy man.”

Chronic blood cancer diagnosis sparks Mel’s passion for awareness

Chronic blood cancer diagnosis sparks Mel’s passion for awareness

Mel loves to run with one of her goals to finish at the Stromlo Running Festival again this year
“One of my goals is to finish at the Stromlo Running Festival again this year.”          – Mel Harris

Since receiving a shock chronic myeloid leukaemia (CML) diagnosis in July 2020, Mel Harris has learnt quickly that the so-called ‘invisible cancer’ can have everyday impacts beyond what many would expect.

Mel had been feeling unwell for months in the lead up to her diagnosis, always cold to the bone, constantly tired, experiencing night sweats and “horrific” back pain.

“I just explained everything away – thinking it was menopause, maybe depression or just the huge year we were having with the global pandemic,” explained the 47-year-old from Canberra.

“The first week of July, things got worse and I couldn’t physically get out of bed. My 18-year-old daughter, Mackenzie said to me, ‘Mum, I’m really worried’.

“That was enough to kick me into gear and I went to the gym the next day. Not long after I started exercising, I passed out and was taken to hospital!”

Mel was taken to the emergency department where she was first told she had acute myeloid leukaemia (AML).

Mel Harris at Mount Ainslie Lookout in her hometown Canberra
Mel at Mount Ainslie lookout in her hometown, Canberra

“I spent the next couple hours Googling the disease, reading about poor prognoses and aggressive treatment regimens – that was really scary,” said Mel.

“I then got transferred to a different hospital in Canberra to have a bone marrow biopsy and the morning after, the haematologist was able to confirm that it was actually chronic myeloid leakaemia (CML).

“Within about 18 hours, I’d gone from feeling like I could smash out a gym session to being diagnosed with a blood cancer.”

Mel was relieved when the haematologist explained that CML was an entirely manageable blood cancer which most people live with for the rest of their life and rarely die from.

“I was just thanking god, because Mackenzie wasn’t quite 18 at the time, it’s just the two of us and she was in the midst of finishing grade 12,” said Mel.

“My haematologist has been really good, explaining the full history of CML drugs. He’s been around for a while and told me how he could remember when this ‘miracle drug’ called imatinib was in clinical trials.”

Since starting on imatinib, Mel has experienced minor side effects of night-time nausea, bone pain, fluid retention under her eyes, a swollen spleen and neck.

“But my GP and haematologist work well together to address those issues as soon as they come up,” she said.

“It’s not hard to manage and I actually feel really lucky because some of the side effects I’ve read on the online support groups sound horrific.

“I do find the groups good for connecting with others and information sharing. I ran out of my drug one day and I remembered that someone had posted about a great chemist in Canberra who would have stock – that was really helpful.”

A couple of months into treatment, Mel started to feel like herself again and went into her haematologist’s office thinking she would be told she had beaten the leukaemia.

“I had taken my tablet religiously every night at the same time, I’d been exercising again, not drinking alcohol and maintaining a really healthy diet,” said Mel.

“I was having regular blood tests, my white blood counts and haemoglobin were looking really good.

“It had completely eluded me that I would still need leukaemia tests every three months and I would need zero detection of leukaemia to be cleared.

“He said to me, ‘You must remember at the end of the day, you still have blood cancer. Just give yourself a break’.”

Mel works as a capability and change strategist at the Australian Trade and Investment Commission (Austrade) in Canberra.

Mel representing Austrade at the Australian Export Awards last year
Mel representing Austrade at the Australian Export Awards last year.

After her diagnosis she discovered another colleague has chronic lymphocytic leukaemia (CLL).

“We call each other blood brother and sister and we always check in on each other,” said Mel.

“You obviously don’t want anyone to have cancer but it’s actually really nice to have somebody at work, in a senior role, who understands what it’s like.”

Mel finds one of the hardest parts of living with a chronic disease is that from the outside, it looks like nothing is wrong.

“You feel like you need to be more positive and put on a brave face, especially when telling people, to allay their fears and worries for you,” said Mel.

“I’ve become quite passionate about chronic illness now, not just leukaemia, but other diseases like diabetes.

“I have another friend at work who is diabetic, and he said there was a study that found they need to make around 180 diabetes-related decisions per day.

“While you’re not going in and having chemotherapy for weeks on end, you need to think about your CML every day and that becomes exhausting.”

“I want to raise awareness that just because someone might not look physically sick, it doesn’t mean they’re not struggling and that needs to be acknowledged more.”

Mel will take part in this year’s Light the Night event to raise awareness and mark her special milestone; exactly three months since starting her blood cancer journey.

“Even though the event is online this year, I think I’ll still do a walk around Canberra if it’s nice weather and listen in on my phone to mark the moment.

“I think it’s really important to recognise what I’ve been through and feel a sense of achievement that I’ve made it this far.”

Her sights are now firmly set on her future work with Austrade including her role as Indigenous Co-Champion.

Same cancer, same drug but our access to treatment was anything but consistent

Same cancer, same drug but our access to treatment was anything but consistent

They’re three women all battling an incurable type of blood cancer, but Neda, Nikki and Shirley have felt hardship in very different ways.

Neda Masters needed to access the drug, lenalidomide to stay in remission.
Neda Masters needed to access the drug, lenalidomide to stay in remission.

Before lenalidomide was listed on the PBS, the breakthrough medicine could cost more than $194,000 for single course of treatment.

But it was an option that could help these three Australians to prolong their disease in remission.

Unable to pay the $1,000 monthly cost, Neda Masters (pictured above) from Queensland was on the verge of moving to America where she could get affordable access the drug.

The 46-year-old mum said: “We didn’t have a choice. Thankfully, my husband had a job lined up but I didn’t know what I was going to do if my family couldn’t live and work in America with me.“

Getting access to the best treatment was going to come at huge cost. We were unable to make the move to America because of the COVID-19 pandemic.

“Thankfully, the PBS listing in March means I can access the drug here at an affordable price.”

Nikki Wagner, second from left, with her family.
Nikki Wagner, second from left, with her family.
Shirley Irwin, second from left, with her family
Shirley Irwin, second from left, with her family.

Nikki Wagner from New South Wales could only initially afford three boxes of lenalidomide, calling them her “princess pills” with each small tablet costing around $250.

Thankfully, her brother intervened and raised the $18,000 needed to start maintenance on this drug.

The 56-year-old said: “It cost about $5,000 for each box of 21 tablets. There was no way we could continue to afford them.

“However, following the initial costs outlayed, I was told I would be getting the drug on compassionate grounds through the drug company. From then on, I was able to get a box for less than $8, a life-changing discount.”

Shirley Irwin was not so lucky. The 71-year-old from Victoria used $54,000 from savings to pay for her lenalidomide which she took for eight months.

The mother-of-two said: “I’ve had some difficulty coming to terms with spending the kid’s inheritance on this medication. But they assured me, ‘we don’t want the money, we want you’.”

I needed better information about clinical trial options

I needed better information about clinical trial options

Matthew Fogarty has spent almost five years regularly travelling to the other side of the world to collect the handful of pills that keep his blood cancer at bay.

Matthew Fogarty
Matthew Fogarty at his home in Perth

After running out of proven, effective treatment options in Australia for his rare type of leukaemia, the 56-year-old stumbled across a clinical trial in America recruiting people to test a drug called ibrutinib, which wasn’t available in Australia at the time.

The father-of-three applied for entry to the trial and was accepted.

Nearly half a decade later, he has spent more than $100,000 of his own money travelling from his home in Perth to Washington DC every 12 weeks to pick up his next dose of the life-saving medicine.

“It’s been a miracle drug for me and may well have saved my life,” he said.

“I believe I’m the only person in the world with this type of blood cancer who has achieved complete remission on ibrutinib.”

Matt taking his first dose of his 'miracle drug', ibrutinib
Matt taking his first dose of his ‘miracle drug’, ibrutinib

“I hope other people like me have an opportunity to try this drug as soon as possible.”

Matt says he had access to the treatment options of his choice after he was diagnosed in 2004, but each time was unable to achieve full remission.

He felt his only option left was to try ibrutinib via Australia’s compassionate access program.

However, his application was declined because “there wasn’t enough evidence to prove ibrutinib could successfully treat this type of blood cancer”.

He added: “I’m disappointed no one thought to tell me about the clinical trial in the US, or even suggest I look.

I discovered it myself on Google and contacted the trial doctors myself.

Surely, I could have been given better information about clinical trial options at that time.

“The financial and psychological impact of the relentless international travel has been substantial, and I’m very fortunate to have had the support I needed from my family to get me through it. I realise not everyone is as lucky as I am.

“If there were more clinical trials here in Australia, it would open up access for many more people and potentially make a huge difference to their quality of life.”

I took control after becoming adrift in the system

I took control after becoming adrift in the system

The long wait for a diagnosis took its toll on Bronwyn Bisley, but her biggest challenges lay ahead as the information she desperately needed dried up.

Bronwyn Bisley with brother, Cameron who was a huge support during her treatment
Bronwyn with brother, Cameron who was a huge support during her treatment.

After feeling run-down and noticing swelling in her neck, the mother-of-three visited her doctor where a CT scan seemed to show Bronwyn had breast cancer.

It was an opinion that set in motion a significant series of events: a referral to an oncologist, more appointments and scans, biopsies and, eventually, surgery.

But breast cancer was eventually ruled out and Bronwyn was instead referred to a haematologist 200km away in Melbourne.

Bronwyn said: “Finally, about three months after my first CT scan scare, my blood cancer diagnosis arrived – by Skype.

The haematologist said I would need chemotherapy, six months leave from work and she asked if I had questions. I had absolutely no idea what to ask.

“Then I didn’t see her again for a really long time.”

Bronwyn was unsure about what lay ahead. She faced “distressing” chemotherapy sessions and debilitating side effects, felt like she didn’t have enough information or support, and had to wait two months between seeing her haematologist.

Overwhelmed, Bronwyn took the frightening decision to press pause on her life-saving treatment.

“I didn’t want to be on that factory line for months, having no discussions with my haematologist, being so sick and only feeling worse.”

Bronwyn with her children, Maggie, Miles and Grace
Bronwyn with her children, Maggie, Miles and Grace.

Bronwyn decided to take control. She dedicated time to get the information she needed. She spoke to experts and friends and eventually travelled to Melbourne, two hours from her hometown, to meet another haematologist.

Feeling empowered and supported, it wasn’t long before Bronwyn was back having more individualised treatment in a way that better managed her side effects.

The information she gathered also saw her make positive changes to her lifestyle that helped her recovery.

The 50-year-old from regional Victoria, now back at work, said: “I never experienced those horrendous symptoms or side effects again. I was more informed, and everything became a lot better.

“It would make a huge difference if everyone with blood cancer was given the information, ideas, connections and support they needed right from the get-go.”

Personalised cellular therapy gives Hunter a future

Personalised cellular therapy gives Hunter a future

A cutting-edge cellular therapy, made possible by breakthrough research, has given seven-year-old Hunter hope for a brighter future.

The Madden family
The Madden family, from left, Dave, Hunter, Kate and little brother, Zac

Hunter was three years old when he was diagnosed with an aggressive blood cancer, and standard chemotherapy and transplant treatments proved unsuccessful.

“We found out Hunter has a very rare chromosomal abnormality in his leukaemic cells,” explained Hunter’s mum, Kate.

“Because of that, I always knew he was going to relapse. I didn’t think it would be as early as he did, but in my hearts of hearts, I knew.”

Blood Cancer Taskforce member Dr Rishi Kotecha is Hunter’s oncologist at Perth’s Children Hospital and advocated for Hunter to receive newly approved CAR T-cell therapy at the Royal Children’s Hospital in Melbourne.

Hunter Madden during treatment
Hunter during his treatment for blood cancer

Hunter was just the tenth child in Australia to undergo federally funded, CAR T-cell therapy, only qualifying for the treatment after leukaemia cells were found in both his central nervous system and bone marrow.

“This is unlike any treatment he’s ever had before,” said Kate.  “His T-cells were extracted and sent to America to be re-engineered.

We then got them back, and he was given a small 10ml syringe of these new ‘super cells’.

Even though the process of engineering the cells and having them returned is complicated, from Kate’s perspective, it was quite straightforward.

“It was relatively simple, almost too simple, but it put him into remission.”

Hunter’s dad, Dave, is adamant research is the key to making a difference for families struggling with blood cancer.

“It’s because of research Hunter has been given another chance,” Dave said.

“It means everything to people like us who have seen our son struggle through these toxic treatments for over half his life.”

“The more support we can offer to research and clinical trials, the better.”

“It’s sad Hunter had to go through the trauma of his transplant, because he only started feeling like himself again nine months after the transplant,” added Kate.

“It only took six weeks after CAR T-cell treatment to get my happy, vibrant, healthy, energetic, little boy back.”

Navigating childhood blood cancer during a pandemic

Navigating childhood blood cancer during a pandemic

This Childhood Cancer Awareness Month, we’re celebrating little legends like three-year-old, Archer Bermingham. Archer spent nine months, hundreds of kilometres from home and across state borders, undergoing life-saving blood cancer treatment during the COVID-19 pandemic.

Hailing from Lennox Head, a small coastal town in northern New South Wales, the Bermingham family live just a couple blocks from the beach and were enjoying the first weeks of summer, swimming and playing outdoors.

“Arch had started taking day naps for the first time in a long time and we thought it was because he was so active and wearing himself out,” his mum, Claire, explained.

“He had a couple of nights when he had fevers, so I had given him Panadol and he was able to go back to sleep.

“But after a couple of days we took him to our doctor who ordered urine tests which came back negative, but his night fevers were persisting.”

The Bermingham Family
The Bermingham family had celebrated Archer’s third birthday the week before his diagnosis with an aggressive blood cancer called leukaemia in early December 2019. 

The morning of his diagnosis, Claire noticed he was limping and then a tiny speckled rash had started to appear on his abdomen.

“We returned to our doctor who sent us straight to the local emergency department for blood tests and possible imaging,” said Claire.

“It was there we were advised of suspected leukaemia and Archer was transported to Brisbane that evening where it was confirmed he had B-cell acute lymphoblastic leukaemia (ALL).”

The family travelled to Queensland Children’s Hospital in Brisbane, a 360km four-hour round trip from their home across the New South Wales-Queensland border.

“Archer underwent five phases of intensive chemotherapy, achieving remission in January 2020, which was a huge relief,” Claire said.

“Initially, we were told this intensive treatment would only last four to six months, but it’s ended up being almost nine.”

Archer spent nine months away from home for treatment
Archer spent nine months away from home while having life-saving treatment.

“There’s only so much tiny bodies can take, and we’ve had a few delays here and there when his body just needed a little bit of time to recover.”

The family of four, including Archer’s dad, Matt, and one-year-old baby sister, Lara, stayed at a Leukaemia Foundation Patient Accommodation Village for the duration of Archer’s treatment.

“From the day after Archer was diagnosed, we had a beautiful unit to call home and that’s just meant the world to us,” said Claire.

“It’s such a beautiful community feeling with the other families. The kids can play safely and we’ve made some beautiful friends.

“It’s so nice to know we’re not alone in this, especially during this pandemic. We just wouldn’t have felt comfortable having Arch in a public hotel.

“We felt so safe there knowing that everyone else is in the same boat and taking the same precautions. It really became our safe haven.”

Archer has now completed his intensive treatment with flying colours and will start the maintenance phase of treatment, which will take 18 months.

“We have had a few teething issues getting used to dosages and the terrifying free-fall of being let loose back into the real world,” said Claire.

The family were able to return home on 10 September 2020, just in time to celebrate Lara’s second birthday.

“It’s lovely to be back home, the COVID-19 border closure had been really difficult, and we hadn’t seen our families for over month,” said Claire.

“Arch will be able to have his six-weekly reviews, blood tests and port-flushes at Lismore Base Hospital and then we have special consideration to return for Brisbane for his three-monthly maintenance treatment.

Archer Bermingham, ALL survivor
Archer now faces another 18 months of maintenance treatment.

“These will just be day trips where Archer and I will only be allowed to come straight to the hospital and remain completely isolated for his treatment.

“I’ve been told this process is very strict and can be intense, but at least we can still access the treatment he needs in Brisbane. Hopefully, everything stays on track and the travel restrictions will ease soon.”

Claire has also become passionate about raising awareness of childhood cancers and the long-term effects it can have.

“There is a lot to learn. When Arch was diagnosed, I didn’t even realise leukaemia was a form of cancer and just went in so blind,” Claire said.

“You’re in a situation where you’re making really critical decisions, on not a lot of sleep and with limited knowledge.

“It’s hard to blindly trust people with your child’s life but you really have no choice.”

She has since made it her mission to learn everything she can about Archer’s blood cancer and treatment.

“I felt the tiniest bit more steady by educating myself when our world was falling apart,” she said.

“But then the reality hit me like a tonne of bricks. Although the initial diagnosis is still the worst moment of my life, I was really at my lowest a couple of months after.

Archer and mum, Claire
Archer and mum, Claire.

“I feel like if I’d been prepared from diagnosis with the knowledge of long-term implications, it wouldn’t have come as such a hard blow when that realisation did hit.

“It’s tough because the hype has worn off from the outside world, everyone goes back to their lives but yours is changed forever and you realise you’re in it for the long haul.”

Claire’s advice to other parents is to just take it ‘day by day, hour by hour, minute by minute and keep putting one foot in front of the other’.

“Your family is stronger than you believe. Your child is stronger than you’ll ever know. And you are stronger than you give yourself credit for.”

Claire’s top tips for parents:

  1. Trust your instincts, be kind to yourself, cry in the car, eat the chocolate.
  2.  Always, always be nice to your nurse; they will save your child more times than you realise.
  3.  Talk to other parents; no two stories are the same but no one else will truly get it.

Baby Daisy spends first year conquering blood cancer

Baby Daisy spends first year conquering blood cancer

To mark September’s Childhood Cancer Awareness Month, we’re sharing the inspiring stories of little warriors like Daisy, who was diagnosed with an aggressive blood cancer at just four months old.

Childhood cancer survivor, Daisy
Childhood cancer survivor and ‘little warrior’, Daisy Neve

No parent ever wants to hear the words: ‘your child has leukaemia’ but imagine hearing them within weeks of welcoming your child into the world.

That was the devastating reality for the Neve family, who were rocked by baby daughter Daisy’s leukaemia diagnosis in early 2019.

“We had no idea when we took her to emergency that she was so sick, “ Daisy’s mum, Jacinta, said.

“We thought she had a virus because her only symptoms were lack of appetite, some small bruises on her legs and a bloated abdomen, which had only appeared the day before.”

Living in the eastern suburbs of Perth, a 45-minute drive to the hospital, the family were forced to leave their home for Daisy’s intensive treatment.

Daisy spent a total of 240 days in hospital for intensive treatment
Daisy spent a total of 240 days in hospital for intensive treatment

“Because Daisy was under one, her treatment is very different to the older kids,” Jacinta said.

“She had to stay as an inpatient for the duration of her intense rounds of chemotherapy – a total of four rounds and 240 days, all spent in hospital!”

During her treatment Daisy experienced many setbacks.

“She got extremely sick with pneumonia, a fungal lung infection, sepsis and cellulitis, all at the same time,” Jacinta explained.

“We have since found out that her body metabolises the oral chemo differently, so we have had to give her another drug to make sure it’s doing its job properly.”

At the time of her diagnosis, Daisy was much too young to understand blood cancer and the reasons for her intensive treatment.

However, Jacinta and her husband, Matt, made sure to sit down with Daisy’s older brother, Jack, who was two and a half at the time, to explain what was happening.

“We explained Daisy’s blood was sick, that she had some bad cells and the medicine the doctors gave her was killing them,” Jacinta said.

“We read books with him that helped explain cancer and how Daisy would lose her hair.

“We also tried to remain positive and didn’t let him see her when she was at her sickest.”

Daisy and Jacinta were away from their home for a total of nine months.

The Neve family
The Neve family

“We missed out on many special occasions and the mum-guilt gets me every time, spending so much time away from my husband and son,” said Jacinta.

“We were overwhelmed by the incredible support we received from everyone but being away from home for so long was definitely the hardest part.

“Speaking to people from the Leukaemia Foundation on the phone and receiving their support has been great. Having someone to chat to and share our story has been really helpful.”

Daisy has now entered the maintenance phase of her treatment, which she will hopefully complete in January 2021.

“Maintenance for Daisy is oral chemo at home every night and we have a monthly review to adjust her doses as she needs,” Jacinta explained.

“She also receives weekly immunoglobulin infusions, which I give to her at home through an injection in her leg, until her immune system has rebuilt.”

Jacinta and her family call Daisy ‘our warrior’, drawing motivation and hope from the way she has undergone treatment without complaint.

 

Daisy Neve during treatment
Daisy during treatment

“She willingly has blood tests without shedding a tear, even picking out which finger nurses can prick,” said Jacinta

“She wouldn’t make a sound when having dressing changes.

“I’m also constantly inspired by all the other families on the ward who have gone on this journey with us.

“Some have lost their beautiful children and some are still fighting, just like us, but we are a one big family, all connected by our experience.”

To honour their blood cancer journey and others going through the same, the family will be taking part in the Leukaemia Foundation’s Light the Night event for the first time this year.

“It means everything to us to participate. We have seen first-hand how blood cancer has affected our family and so many others,” Jacinta said.

“Raising more awareness not only for blood cancer but for childhood cancer is the most important thing to us. Awareness equals funding, which equals a cure.”

Jacinta’s advice to other parents

  1. Ask your doctors questions, don’t feel silly and ask them to repeat the answers a hundred times if you need them too.
  2. Take photos and write a journal, it helped so much to have all Daisy’s blood counts written down and what she has done each day, as well as a little note to her about how she was doing.
  3. Reach out for help, from meals, to washing and cleaning, visitors and even financial help accepting help made our journey that little bit easier.

Self-care and honesty vital for dads living with blood cancer

Self-care and honesty vital for dads living with blood cancer

This Father’s Day, and every day, we’re celebrating brave Aussie dads like Bill Kuluris, who are living with a blood cancer while also being a key provider and rock for their families.

Bill Kuluris with family
The Kuluris family (L-R): Lord Toby, Katie, Belinda, Bill, Madeline and Lady Lucy

Father of two, Bill has been living with a blood cancer called chronic lymphocytic leukaemia (CLL) since 2016.

“I remember it clearly; I had gone to see my doctor as I do every year for my annual check-up.

“This was just prior to my wife, Belinda heading on her annual overseas trip and I thought nothing of it until her return when I received a text message from my doctor to come in,” remembers the 51-year-old.

“I had an appointment shortly after where he broke the news to me that I had CLL.

“It was a fair shock; I’d obviously heard of leukaemia but hadn’t heard much about the chronic type.”

Bill called Belinda to meet at a local café straight after the appointment to process the diagnosis; “I was obviously still in shock, but Belinda was straight onto it making sure I was ok.”

Telling the kids

Breaking the news to their young daughters, Madeleine, now 20 and Katie, now 16 was even tougher on the couple.

“That was probably the hardest thing, they were both just 16 and 13-years-old at the time and we had only just lost my own father to prostate cancer,” said Bill.

“I remember that day very clearly – we sat them around the kitchen bench and just told them, ‘Dad’s got leukaemia, it’s a type of blood cancer’.”

“Their facial expressions changed completely, and we had to back-track quickly saying how it was entirely manageable and we were only really telling them to keep them in the loop.

“Kids will often be the first to pick things up when something is wrong, so we wanted to make sure we were honest with them and they knew before the rest of our family and friends.”

Anxious for answers

Living in a small rural town called Moama in southern New South Wales, Bill was facing a six month wait to get reviewed by a specialist.

Anxious for answers, Bill instead sought a referral to a CLL specialist in his old hometown of Geelong, Victoria where he had worked as a nurse.

“Thanks to Belinda, I got in within a couple weeks and I actually knew the specialist from when I worked in the hospital,” explained Bill. “We have a really wonderful and comfortable relationship,”

“He walked me through how people living with CLL can still lead very full and happy lives and more times than not you will die from something other than the blood cancer.

“I was put on ‘watch and wait’ as my cancer is stable for the moment and I will just continue to have six-monthly check-ups and blood tests down at Geelong to monitor my levels.”

Accessing support

While life goes on for Bill, the burden of living with a chronic blood cancer can still weigh heavy at times and he has accessed support through the Leukaemia Foundation.

“As nurses, my wife and I are always telling our own patients the importance of accessing help should they need it and the many wonderful services that are available,” said Bill.

“I took my own advice just after my diagnosis and rang the Leukemia Foundation where I was put on to my own Blood Cancer Support Coordinator.

“That’s really helped me along the way to find my feet and feel comfortable with the fact that I could be living with this disease for the rest of my life.

“I think I would’ve been completely lost without that additional support and guidance.

“I obviously have amazing support from my friends and family but the Leukaemia Foundation staff have that specialised understanding of the disease and that neutral voice that can help keep you grounded.

“I’ve also attended Leukaemia Foundation support groups at Shepparton in Victoria and another small town close to Moama called Echuca.

“It’s great to talk to others going through the same thing and connect on how everyone is managing their blood cancer.”

Hosting Light the Night

Bill has also hosted the Moama-Echuca Light the Night event for the past few years, enjoying the chance to give back to the blood cancer community.

“The whole family gets involved, my daughters’ school help to get volunteers and with the fundraising,” said Bill.

“They have a whole bunch of friends come along on the day and help me in the lead up.

“It’s also a fantastic way to get the community together. Belinda and I previously managed a hotel in Moama so we have great contacts and networks to get the fundraising going.

“It’s held right on the river there that marks the border of New South Wales and Victoria.

“The lantern ceremony is always really special, and we all walk over the bridge and then back again acknowledging those conquering blood cancer in not just one, but two states.”

Due to the COVID-19 pandemic, the family will be taking part in Light the Night at home this year.

“We will be participating ‘COVID-19 style’, most likely at home around our fire pit and hopefully we can have some family and friends around.”

“Belinda has also put in a great effort making a number of face masks during August for our Light Night fundraising this year,” said Bill.

“They were all sold out in a day and we asked people buying the masks to donate to our Light the Night fundraising page.”

Advice for other dads

Bill is now firmly focused on the future, keeping an eye on his health to be there for his family and he encourages other dads to do the same.

“I know for many blokes, health and going to the doctor can often become a last priority,” said Bill.

“Who knows what could’ve happened if I hadn’t made that annual check-up, I would still be living in ignorance and not managing my blood cancer.

“You need to think of your family first and foremost and make sure you’re healthy for them.”

 

 

 

Breaking barriers: Sharyn’s 130,000km journey to treatment

Breaking barriers: Sharyn’s 130,000km journey to treatment

Blood cancer survivor Sharyn Polce has experienced first-hand the ‘postcode lottery’ of treatment, after travelling neary 130,000km in four years to access the treatment she needed.

Sharyn Polce at her 50th birthday celebrations
Sharyn at her 50th birthday celebrations

 

While we mark the tenth anniversary of Blood Cancer Awareness Month, Sharyn will also be celebrating ten years since her diagnosis with a blood cancer called chronic myeloid leukaemia (CML).

The mother-of-two from Perth was first diagnosed only two weeks after her 40th birthday in 2010.

“The diagnosis was life-changing and came just months after my best friend lost their child to leukaemia,” remembered the now 50-year-old.

Sharyn Polce with her children
Sharyn with her daughter, Dani and son, Jake

Six years after her diagnosis, Sharyn was still struggling to conquer the disease.

“I had been through four rounds of chemotherapy but just kept on relapsing and all other forms of treatment had failed,” explained Sharyn.

“My only other chance for a cure was a stem cell transplant which proved impossible. Out of the millions of people on the National Bone Marrow Registry, not one was a match.”

Sharyn was finally given hope with the chance to take part in a ‘first-in-human’ trial run by world-leading Adelaide CML specialist and Blood Cancer Taskforce member, Dr Timothy Hughes.

The trial was Sharyn’s only option and she had to relocate to Adelaide to be part of it.

Living with blood cancer for so many years meant Sharyn had been unable to work and had already sold her house. Money for accommodation and transport was tight.

Sharyn and her partner, Troy Pegrum, temporarily relocated from Perth into a unit at the purpose-built Bridgestone Australia Leukaemia Foundation Village in Adelaide.

Sharyn Polce with her partner Troy
Sharyn with her partner, Troy

The village is a home away-from-home for regional patients like Sharyn who are forced to relocate to capital cities for vital treatment.

“Without the Leukaemia Foundation there was just no way we could have afforded to stay in Adelaide,” said Sharyn.

“Because your life depends on these drugs and the trial, you’ve got no choice. You’re basically hoping these drugs save your life and kill your cancer before it kills you.”

Since 2016, Sharyn has been forced to travel back and forth to her trial in Adelaide every month, around 24 times in total.

Incredibly she has covered more than 129,000km and its cost her around $20,000 in airfares alone.

This Blood Cancer Awareness Month, the Leukaemia Foundation has prioritised ending the postcode lottery faced by regional patients.

Last year’s first-of-its-kind State of the Nation: Blood Cancer in Australia report revealed a 13 per cent gap in survival rates between patients in regional and metropolitan areas (5%), and between states and territories (8%).

By breaking down these barriers and removing variations in access to best practice treatment and care, Australia could minimise mortality and potentially save up to 22,000 lives by 2035.